Personality
👋 What this unit is really about
Think of two classmates who look almost the same — same height, same uniform — and yet you'd never confuse them. One is always first to help, the other always cracking jokes. That invisible difference is personality: the habits, reactions and qualities that make each of us one of a kind. If Unit 1 taught you to describe what people look like, this unit teaches you to describe who they are.
And it has its own slice of English. The grammar that fits here is the small family of pronouns that point back at people: reciprocal pronouns (each other vs one another) for when people act on each other, and reflexive pronouns (myself, yourself, himself) for when someone acts on themselves. You'll also learn to read and describe a bar graph. The writing tasks — a personality speech, a graph description, an essay — all flow from there.
📖 Reading — Vidath's speech on personality
NIE Pupil's Book Grade 10, page 101 — reproduced verbatim. Notice it's a spoken piece: it greets the audience, asks questions out loud, then answers them. That question-and-answer rhythm is exactly what makes a speech feel alive — borrow it for your own.
Look at how Vidath builds his speech: he starts with a personal spark ("I read an article… this made me think about my own personality"), then asks the big question — "From where do we get our personality?" — and answers it ("by birth and by the environment"). A speech that asks then answers pulls the listener along, because the human mind can't help reaching for an answer once a question is hanging in the air. When you write a speech in Test 16, plant a question or two; it instantly sounds more confident than a flat list of facts.
🧰 Word bank — personality traits (both sides of the coin)
Every personality word has a twin on the other side of a coin. The very same energy that we praise as "determined" we criticise as "stubborn" when we don't like it; "confident" and "arrogant" describe almost the same behaviour seen by a friend and by an enemy. So keep the two columns side by side in your mind — it teaches you that describing character is really about shades, not black and white.
| Positive (✓) | ambitious · brave · capable · determined · fearless · generous · honest · loyal · cheerful · hard-working · punctual · sociable · sensible · empathetic · optimistic · trustworthy |
|---|---|
| Negative (✗) | arrogant · stingy · careless · untidy · wasteful · hot-tempered · selfish · shy · aggressive · oversensitive · dishonest · timid · jealous · stubborn |
When you describe a person honestly, mention three positives and one weakness. That little flaw is what makes the praise believable — a person who is only good reads like a cardboard cut-out, not a human being.
📐 Grammar — Reciprocal pronouns — each other vs one another பரஸ்பர பெயர்ச்சொற்கள்
When two friends shake hands, something travels both ways at once — you greet me and I greet you, in the same moment. English has a special pair of pronouns for exactly that back-and-forth: each other and one another. They're called reciprocal because the action bounces between the people, like a ball passed to and fro.
The only thing to keep straight is how many people. Picture it: two people facing each other, versus a whole circle of friends. Each other is for the pair (just two); one another is for the crowd (more than two). If you can see two faces, it's "each other".
| Wrong | Right |
|---|---|
| Sajini and Nimal helped one another. | Sajini and Nimal helped each other. (just two) |
| The four sons fought each other. | The four sons fought one another. (more than two) |
| They love each others. | They love each other. (never add -s) |
One slip everyone makes: writing "each others". There is no plural form — the word already means "the two of them", so it never takes an -s. To show belonging, the apostrophe goes in the right place: "The students copied each other's notes" and "one another's".
📐 Grammar — Reflexive pronouns — myself, yourself, himself… பிரதிபலிப்புப் பெயர்ச்சொற்கள்
Sometimes the person doing the action and the person it lands on are the very same person. "I cut myself" — I did the cutting and I got cut. For that, English bends the pronoun back on itself like a mirror reflecting you, and adds -self for one person or -selves for many. That's why they're called reflexive: the action reflects straight back to the subject.
So the test is simple — ask "did the action come back to the same person who started it?" If yes, reach for the -self word. "She taught herself guitar" (she taught, she learned). "We enjoyed ourselves" (we did the enjoying, we had the fun).
| Subject | Reflexive | Example |
|---|---|---|
| I | myself | I taught myself Korean. |
| you (singular) | yourself | Take care of yourself. |
| he / she / it | himself / herself / itself | He cut himself while shaving. |
| we | ourselves | We enjoyed ourselves at the picnic. |
| you (plural) | yourselves | Help yourselves to the snacks. |
| they | themselves | The cats washed themselves. |
The trap is the plural endings. One person ends in -self (myself, yourself, himself); two or more end in -selves (ourselves, yourselves, themselves). The word that catches almost everyone is the made-up "ourself" — there's no such thing; "we" is always plural, so it's ourselves.
📐 Grammar — Describing a bar graph — the right vocabulary வரைபடம் — சொற்கள்
A bar graph is a picture of numbers, and your job is to turn that picture back into a few clean sentences — like a tour guide describing a view so well that a listener can see it without looking. You don't mention every single bar; you point out the tallest, sketch the middle, name the shortest, and finish with what it all means.
To do that smoothly you need a small kit of comparison phrases. Learn these six and you can describe almost any chart the exam throws at you:
- The majority of… — most of them
- Least number of… / minimum — the fewest
- Approximately… — about / roughly
- Maximum — the largest
- Equal number of… — the same as
- More than / less than… — straight comparison
Then pour them into the Test-14 shape: title sentence → the most → the middle → the least → one closing insight. The closing insight (what the numbers suggest) is what lifts a description from a list into real writing.
✍️ Writing — Speech about your own personality (~100 words, Test 14 / 16 shape)
Include:
• who you are (name, class)
• three positive qualities with one example each
• one weakness you are working on
• a closing thought on what you want to become.
My name is Tharindu Silva and I am a Grade 10 student.
If you ask my friends about me, I think they will say three things. First, I
am hard-working — when I take up a project I see it to the end. Second, I am
empathetic; my little sister always brings her tears to me before anyone
else. Third, I am punctual: the school bus has never waited for me.
My weakness, I will admit, is impatience. I am working on it by reading one
page of a Sinhala novel each night instead of scrolling on my phone.
I want to be a doctor my patients can trust.
Why it works: The clever move in this speech is that it never just claims a quality — it proves each one with a tiny example. Anyone can say "I am hard-working"; what convinces the listener is "when I take up a project I see it to the end". A claim plus its evidence is twice as strong as the claim alone. Notice too that the weakness is admitted honestly ("impatience") but paired with a fix — that turns a flaw into a sign of self-awareness, which examiners reward. It opens with name and class, gives three quality+example pairs, owns one weakness, and closes on a warm ambition. Copy that skeleton.
✍️ Writing — Bar-graph description: personality qualities (~100 words)
Write a description using about 100 words. Use: the majority of, least
number of, approximately, minimum, equal number of, more than, less than,
maximum.
Bar values (No. of friends): Ambitious 12 · Brave 8 · Capable 10 · Determined 6 ·
Fearless 4 · Generous 14.
Generosity is the quality found in the maximum number of friends — 14 in
total. Ambition comes a close second at 12, while approximately 10 of them
are considered capable. Bravery and determination follow with 8 and 6
friends respectively. The least number of friends, just 4, are seen as
fearless.
In summary, the majority of friends are described in 'soft' terms — generous,
ambitious and capable — rather than in 'hard' terms such as fearless. This
suggests our class values kindness and ambition more than physical courage.
107 words.
Why it works: Trace the five-line shape and you'll see the recipe in action. Line one names the chart (the title sentence). Then it climbs down the bars in order — the maximum first (generosity, 14), the middle ones next (ambition, capability, bravery), the minimum last (fearless, 4) — so the reader's eye travels from tallest to shortest without jumping about. The real marks live in that last paragraph: instead of stopping at the numbers, it asks what they mean ("our class values kindness more than physical courage"). Every required phrase is used naturally, not bolted on. Describe the bars, then tell us the story they hide — that closing insight is what separates a 6 from a 10.
📖 Reading — Human Values (poem)
NIE Pupil's Book Grade 10, page 111 — Dr. Ram Sharma. Read it once for the feeling, then again for the two pronouns hiding in it — "each other" and "one another" — doing real work in a poem.
Feel how the repeated "we, we, and only we" at the end thuds like a drumbeat — the poet is accusing all of us, himself included, of selfishness in a "speedy materialistic race". The bitter joke is in line six: "we are pushing each other" instead of helping. He uses the very reciprocal pronouns from this unit, but turned sour — what should describe people caring for one another now describes people shoving past one another. That\'s how a poem makes a point: by twisting an ordinary phrase until you feel its edge.
Questions to try yourself: What is valued most by the poet — quote the lines. What do "we are pushing each other, we have no human values" tell us about modern society? Which human values do you think we are losing?
⭐ What the exam asks about this unit
Glance over this before you revise. Reciprocal and reflexive pronouns are near-guaranteed in the fill-in passages (Tests 11–13), and bar-graph description is a fixed slot in Test 14. The personality vocabulary feeds the comprehension and the character essays too — so this unit earns marks in several places at once.
| Past-paper test | What was tested |
|---|---|
| 2015 Test 2 | Match qualities to people (Chanura clever, Gayan excellent artist…) |
| 2016 Test 14 (b) | Bar graph description — leisure activities of students |
| 2017 Test 13 | "Under Ground" poem — recognising mood and meaning |
| 2017 Test 7 | Comprehension about a person ("the 100-year-old lady") |
| Test 11 / 12 / 13 | Reciprocal & reflexive pronouns in fill-in passages |
- "each others" — never plural; the phrase already means the two of them, so write each other.
- "ourself" — there's no such word; "we" is plural, so it's ourselves.
- "The four boys helped each other" — four is more than two, so it must be one another.
- Listing every bar in a graph description — pick the most, the middle, the least, then say what it means. Forgetting that closing insight costs the top marks.
🎯 Test yourself before you move on
- each other or one another? "The two sisters hugged ___." / "All six players passed the ball to ___." → each other (two); one another (more than two).
- Why is there never an -s on "each other"? → It already means the two of them, so it can't be made plural.
- Fill the reflexive: "She taught ___ to swim." / "They enjoyed ___." → herself; themselves.
- Spot the error: "We should look after ourself." → plural of -self is -selves: "look after ourselves".
- Name the five-line shape for describing a bar graph. → title → most (maximum) → middle → least (minimum) → what it means.
- Why does Vidath's speech feel alive? → It asks questions then answers them ("From where do we get our personality?"), pulling the listener along.
| Paper · Test | Format | Words |
|---|---|---|
| Paper I · Test 6 | Notice / note / message | 40–50 |
| Paper I · Test 8 | Short paragraph (a place, a person, a hobby) | 50–60 |
| Paper II · Test 14 | Letter or data description (bar / pie / table) | ~100 |
| Paper II · Test 16 | Article / essay / speech / story / dialogue | ~200 |
Examiners cut marks for going over by more than 10%. Count by line — six average sentences ≈ 60 words.
📝 Exam Practice
Write your answer first, then click Show model answer to compare.
The first one is done for you.
(1) Punctual → c (example)
(2) Generous
(3) Ambitious
(4) Stubborn
(5) Empathetic
(6) Hard-working
(a) Refuses to change her mind even when proved wrong.
(b) Stays late at school every Tuesday to finish her project.
(c) Always arrives at school five minutes before the bell.
(d) Gives away half his lunch to a hungry friend.
(e) Wants to become a doctor and study at Harvard.
(f) Notices when a friend is upset and listens patiently.
(3) e — Ambitious
(4) a — Stubborn
(5) f — Empathetic
(6) b — Hard-working
5 marks.
<b>one another</b>.
(1) My twin and I have known ........... since the day we were born.
(2) The four houses of our school compete with ........... at sports day.
(3) Tharindu and Sajini still write to ........... twice a month.
(4) All Sri Lankans should respect ........... regardless of religion.
(5) Two best friends should always trust ........... .
(2) one another
(3) each other
(4) one another
(5) each other
5 marks.
(1) I taught ........... how to ride a bicycle.
(2) Please make ........... at home, Aunty.
(3) The cat washes ........... after every meal.
(4) We enjoyed ........... at the picnic.
(5) The visitors helped ........... to the buffet.
(6) Did you cook this all by ..........., Amma?
(2) yourself
(3) itself
(4) ourselves
(5) themselves
(6) yourself
5 marks.
Words: ambitious · arrogant · cheerful · cruel · diligent · hot-tempered · jealous · loyal · selfish · trustworthy
Positive (✓): ........... ........... ........... ........... ...........
Negative (✗): ........... ........... ........... ........... ...........
Negative: arrogant · cruel · hot-tempered · jealous · selfish.
5 marks.
(1) What inspired Vidath to write about personality?
(2) According to the speech, what makes each person unique?
(3) Write the sentence that lists at least three different types of people we meet.
(4) Find a word in the speech that means "a fixed way of behaving".
(5) Underline the correct answer. According to Vidath, personality comes from
(a) only our parents.
(b) only the environment.
(c) both birth and environment.
(2) The unique combination of our qualities and behaviours — our personality.
(3) "Among them we may find that some are friendly, some shy, some helpful, some lazy, and so on."
(4) traits / patterns.
(5) (c) both birth and environment.
5 marks.
notice inviting students to a talk on 'Building a strong personality'. Use
about 40–50 words.
Include:
• date, time and venue
• name of the resource person
• who can attend
• how to register.
All Grade 9 to 11 students are invited to a talk by Dr. Hashini Wickrama,
Clinical Psychologist, on 'Building a Strong Personality'. It will be held in
the school auditorium on Friday, 18th February 2027 at 1.30 p.m. Register
with Nimali Perera by 16th February.
— Secretary.
50 words. 5 marks.
(a) The personality I admire most
(b) A bad habit I want to change
(c) What I would say at my own farewell
The personality I admire most is my class teacher, Mrs. Perera. She walks into
the room with a smile that settles the noisiest day. She is patient when we
are slow, firm when we are careless, and remembers a small joke from a month
ago. To me, she is proof that kindness and discipline can live in the same
person.
5 marks.
(a) Write a letter to a pen friend describing the personality of a member of
your family. Include: relationship, three positive qualities with an example,
one weakness, one closing thought.
(b) The bar graph below shows the personality qualities of Grade 10 students
in a class of 40. Write a description.
Bar values: cheerful 24 · helpful 18 · honest 15 · punctual 12 · brave 9 · stubborn 6.
The bar graph shows the personality qualities of 40 Grade 10 students in a
class. Cheerfulness is the quality found in the majority of students at 24,
followed by helpfulness at 18. Approximately 15 students are honest, while
12 are punctual. Bravery is reported in 9 students, slightly more than
stubbornness, which is the least common quality at just 6.
In summary, more than half the class is described in 'warm' terms (cheerful
or helpful), and only one in five carries the negative trait of stubbornness.
This class clearly values friendliness over toughness.
10 marks — every required phrase used, accurate data, closing insight.
(a) A speech you would make at the assembly on 'What makes a strong personality'.
(b) An essay on 'Why kindness matters more than cleverness'.
(c) An article: 'The most influential person in my life'.
The person who has shaped me most is my grandfather, Achchappa.
He is seventy-nine, of medium build and a calm voice that you only hear when
the rest of the family has stopped shouting. He retired from a Class-3 clerk
post at the Department of Agriculture in 2010, and yet I have not met anyone
in my life who treats every minute of every day as carefully as he does.
Three of his qualities have become my own. First, his honesty. He once
travelled 32 km on a bus to return a fifty-rupee note a shopkeeper had given
him by mistake. Second, his curiosity. He still reads a newspaper a day and
can tell me what GDP and inflation mean better than my Commerce teacher.
Third, his patience. He taught me to read clocks when I was three and to
relace my own shoes when I was four — both with the same gentle smile.
His only weakness, perhaps, is that he never raises his voice — even when
someone is taking advantage of him.
I do not want to be a famous man one day; I want to be the kind of man
Achchappa is. Quiet, honest, and used by his family every single day.
15 marks — opens with a hook, three qualities each with a concrete story,
honest weakness, deeply personal closing.
⚡ Quick Check — Adjectives & Adverbs
1. "She sings ___." (beautiful — how she sings)
2. "He is a ___ runner." (fast — describing the person)
3. Adjective "happy" → adverb: ___
4. Which word is an adjective? "The tall boy ran quickly."
5. "She speaks English very ___."
🎧 Dictation — Adjective Suffixes & Personality
Listen carefully, then type exactly what you hear. Click 🔊 to replay.
🗣️ Speaking — Describing Character
Read each sentence aloud. Click 🎤 Record, speak clearly, then see your result.