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O/L · English Language · Grade 10 · Unit 10: Personality
🔟 Grade 10 · Unit 10

Personality

Character traits · reciprocal & reflexive pronouns · bar-graph language · personality essay
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👋 What this unit is really about

Think of two classmates who look almost the same — same height, same uniform — and yet you'd never confuse them. One is always first to help, the other always cracking jokes. That invisible difference is personality: the habits, reactions and qualities that make each of us one of a kind. If Unit 1 taught you to describe what people look like, this unit teaches you to describe who they are.

And it has its own slice of English. The grammar that fits here is the small family of pronouns that point back at people: reciprocal pronouns (each other vs one another) for when people act on each other, and reflexive pronouns (myself, yourself, himself) for when someone acts on themselves. You'll also learn to read and describe a bar graph. The writing tasks — a personality speech, a graph description, an essay — all flow from there.

📖 Reading — Vidath's speech on personality

NIE Pupil's Book Grade 10, page 101 — reproduced verbatim. Notice it's a spoken piece: it greets the audience, asks questions out loud, then answers them. That question-and-answer rhythm is exactly what makes a speech feel alive — borrow it for your own.

Good afternoon everybody! Dear teachers and friends, I'm here to speak a few words on "Personality." Recently I read an article on 'personality' and this made me think about my own personality. After reading it, I started wondering how my friends differ from me. This inspired me to find more about this topic. Just as people identify us with our name, they identify us with our qualities and behaviours. So each person is unique. This is the result of our unique personality. Personality can be explained based on the patterns of behaviour and personal traits. Also these things are found to be a dynamic and an organized set. In other words, it can tell you the type of person you are, which is shown by the way you behave, feel and think. From where do we get our personality? It can come to us by birth and by the environment we live in. Hence, people are different from one another. We come across many people in our day to day life. Among them we may find that some are friendly, some shy, some helpful, some lazy, and so on.

Look at how Vidath builds his speech: he starts with a personal spark ("I read an article… this made me think about my own personality"), then asks the big question — "From where do we get our personality?" — and answers it ("by birth and by the environment"). A speech that asks then answers pulls the listener along, because the human mind can't help reaching for an answer once a question is hanging in the air. When you write a speech in Test 16, plant a question or two; it instantly sounds more confident than a flat list of facts.

🧰 Word bank — personality traits (both sides of the coin)

Every personality word has a twin on the other side of a coin. The very same energy that we praise as "determined" we criticise as "stubborn" when we don't like it; "confident" and "arrogant" describe almost the same behaviour seen by a friend and by an enemy. So keep the two columns side by side in your mind — it teaches you that describing character is really about shades, not black and white.

Positive (✓)ambitious · brave · capable · determined · fearless · generous · honest · loyal · cheerful · hard-working · punctual · sociable · sensible · empathetic · optimistic · trustworthy
Negative (✗)arrogant · stingy · careless · untidy · wasteful · hot-tempered · selfish · shy · aggressive · oversensitive · dishonest · timid · jealous · stubborn

When you describe a person honestly, mention three positives and one weakness. That little flaw is what makes the praise believable — a person who is only good reads like a cardboard cut-out, not a human being.

📐 Grammar — Reciprocal pronouns — each other vs one another பரஸ்பர பெயர்ச்சொற்கள்

When two friends shake hands, something travels both ways at once — you greet me and I greet you, in the same moment. English has a special pair of pronouns for exactly that back-and-forth: each other and one another. They're called reciprocal because the action bounces between the people, like a ball passed to and fro.

The only thing to keep straight is how many people. Picture it: two people facing each other, versus a whole circle of friends. Each other is for the pair (just two); one another is for the crowd (more than two). If you can see two faces, it's "each other".

WrongRight
Sajini and Nimal helped one another.Sajini and Nimal helped each other. (just two)
The four sons fought each other.The four sons fought one another. (more than two)
They love each others.They love each other. (never add -s)

One slip everyone makes: writing "each others". There is no plural form — the word already means "the two of them", so it never takes an -s. To show belonging, the apostrophe goes in the right place: "The students copied each other's notes" and "one another's".

📋 Quick recall each other = two people · one another = more than two. Never "each others". Possessive: each other's / one another's.

📐 Grammar — Reflexive pronouns — myself, yourself, himself… பிரதிபலிப்புப் பெயர்ச்சொற்கள்

Sometimes the person doing the action and the person it lands on are the very same person. "I cut myself" — I did the cutting and I got cut. For that, English bends the pronoun back on itself like a mirror reflecting you, and adds -self for one person or -selves for many. That's why they're called reflexive: the action reflects straight back to the subject.

So the test is simple — ask "did the action come back to the same person who started it?" If yes, reach for the -self word. "She taught herself guitar" (she taught, she learned). "We enjoyed ourselves" (we did the enjoying, we had the fun).

SubjectReflexiveExample
ImyselfI taught myself Korean.
you (singular)yourselfTake care of yourself.
he / she / ithimself / herself / itselfHe cut himself while shaving.
weourselvesWe enjoyed ourselves at the picnic.
you (plural)yourselvesHelp yourselves to the snacks.
theythemselvesThe cats washed themselves.

The trap is the plural endings. One person ends in -self (myself, yourself, himself); two or more end in -selves (ourselves, yourselves, themselves). The word that catches almost everyone is the made-up "ourself" — there's no such thing; "we" is always plural, so it's ourselves.

📋 Quick recall Action comes back to the doer → use the -self word. Singular -self (myself/yourself/himself); plural -selves (ourselves/yourselves/ themselves). It is one word — never "my self", never "ourself".

📐 Grammar — Describing a bar graph — the right vocabulary வரைபடம் — சொற்கள்

A bar graph is a picture of numbers, and your job is to turn that picture back into a few clean sentences — like a tour guide describing a view so well that a listener can see it without looking. You don't mention every single bar; you point out the tallest, sketch the middle, name the shortest, and finish with what it all means.

To do that smoothly you need a small kit of comparison phrases. Learn these six and you can describe almost any chart the exam throws at you:

  • The majority of… — most of them
  • Least number of… / minimum — the fewest
  • Approximately… — about / roughly
  • Maximum — the largest
  • Equal number of… — the same as
  • More than / less than… — straight comparison

Then pour them into the Test-14 shape: title sentence → the most → the middle → the least → one closing insight. The closing insight (what the numbers suggest) is what lifts a description from a list into real writing.

📋 Quick recall Five-line shape: title → most (maximum) → middle → least (minimum) → what it means. Toolkit: the majority of · approximately · maximum · minimum · equal number of · more/less than.

✍️ Writing — Speech about your own personality (~100 words, Test 14 / 16 shape)

Vidath's speech inspired you to write your own. Use about 100 words.

Include:
• who you are (name, class)
• three positive qualities with one example each
• one weakness you are working on
• a closing thought on what you want to become.

✍️ Writing — Bar-graph description: personality qualities (~100 words)

The bar graph shows the personal qualities of friends in a Grade 10 class.
Write a description using about 100 words. Use: the majority of, least
number of, approximately, minimum, equal number of, more than, less than,
maximum.

Bar values (No. of friends): Ambitious 12 · Brave 8 · Capable 10 · Determined 6 ·
Fearless 4 · Generous 14.

📖 Reading — Human Values (poem)

NIE Pupil's Book Grade 10, page 111 — Dr. Ram Sharma. Read it once for the feeling, then again for the two pronouns hiding in it — "each other" and "one another" — doing real work in a poem.

HUMAN VALUES In the speedy materialistic race, We have forgot our grace, We are running behind the glitters, Due to which everyone suffers, In going ahead with one another, we are pushing each other, We have no human values, only cry and blues, we have no heart, only the art to cheat and to deceive We can't bear, the progress of other we, we, and only we. — Dr. Ram Sharma

Feel how the repeated "we, we, and only we" at the end thuds like a drumbeat — the poet is accusing all of us, himself included, of selfishness in a "speedy materialistic race". The bitter joke is in line six: "we are pushing each other" instead of helping. He uses the very reciprocal pronouns from this unit, but turned sour — what should describe people caring for one another now describes people shoving past one another. That\'s how a poem makes a point: by twisting an ordinary phrase until you feel its edge.

Questions to try yourself: What is valued most by the poet — quote the lines. What do "we are pushing each other, we have no human values" tell us about modern society? Which human values do you think we are losing?

⭐ What the exam asks about this unit

Glance over this before you revise. Reciprocal and reflexive pronouns are near-guaranteed in the fill-in passages (Tests 11–13), and bar-graph description is a fixed slot in Test 14. The personality vocabulary feeds the comprehension and the character essays too — so this unit earns marks in several places at once.

Past-paper testWhat was tested
2015 Test 2Match qualities to people (Chanura clever, Gayan excellent artist…)
2016 Test 14 (b)Bar graph description — leisure activities of students
2017 Test 13"Under Ground" poem — recognising mood and meaning
2017 Test 7Comprehension about a person ("the 100-year-old lady")
Test 11 / 12 / 13Reciprocal & reflexive pronouns in fill-in passages
⚠ Where students throw marks away
  • "each others" — never plural; the phrase already means the two of them, so write each other.
  • "ourself" — there's no such word; "we" is plural, so it's ourselves.
  • "The four boys helped each other" — four is more than two, so it must be one another.
  • Listing every bar in a graph description — pick the most, the middle, the least, then say what it means. Forgetting that closing insight costs the top marks.

🎯 Test yourself before you move on

Cover the answers — say each one out loud first
  • each other or one another? "The two sisters hugged ___." / "All six players passed the ball to ___." → each other (two); one another (more than two).
  • Why is there never an -s on "each other"? → It already means the two of them, so it can't be made plural.
  • Fill the reflexive: "She taught ___ to swim." / "They enjoyed ___." → herself; themselves.
  • Spot the error: "We should look after ourself." → plural of -self is -selves: "look after ourselves".
  • Name the five-line shape for describing a bar graph. → title → most (maximum) → middle → least (minimum) → what it means.
  • Why does Vidath's speech feel alive? → It asks questions then answers them ("From where do we get our personality?"), pulling the listener along.
📏 Official word counts (GCE O/L English Language)
Paper · TestFormatWords
Paper I · Test 6Notice / note / message40–50
Paper I · Test 8Short paragraph (a place, a person, a hobby)50–60
Paper II · Test 14Letter or data description (bar / pie / table)~100
Paper II · Test 16Article / essay / speech / story / dialogue~200

Examiners cut marks for going over by more than 10%. Count by line — six average sentences ≈ 60 words.

📝 Exam Practice

Write your answer first, then click Show model answer to compare.

Task 1 — Match qualities to descriptions (5 marks) (5 marks)
Match each quality on the left with the behaviour on the right.
The first one is done for you.

(1) Punctual → c (example)
(2) Generous
(3) Ambitious
(4) Stubborn
(5) Empathetic
(6) Hard-working

(a) Refuses to change her mind even when proved wrong.
(b) Stays late at school every Tuesday to finish her project.
(c) Always arrives at school five minutes before the bell.
(d) Gives away half his lunch to a hungry friend.
(e) Wants to become a doctor and study at Harvard.
(f) Notices when a friend is upset and listens patiently.
Task 2 — each other vs one another (5 marks) (5 marks)
Fill in each blank with either <b>each other</b> or
<b>one another</b>.

(1) My twin and I have known ........... since the day we were born.
(2) The four houses of our school compete with ........... at sports day.
(3) Tharindu and Sajini still write to ........... twice a month.
(4) All Sri Lankans should respect ........... regardless of religion.
(5) Two best friends should always trust ........... .
Task 3 — Reflexive pronouns (5 marks) (5 marks)
Fill in each blank with the correct reflexive pronoun.

(1) I taught ........... how to ride a bicycle.
(2) Please make ........... at home, Aunty.
(3) The cat washes ........... after every meal.
(4) We enjoyed ........... at the picnic.
(5) The visitors helped ........... to the buffet.
(6) Did you cook this all by ..........., Amma?
Task 4 — Positive or negative? (5 marks) (5 marks)
Sort the following qualities into the right column.

Words: ambitious · arrogant · cheerful · cruel · diligent · hot-tempered · jealous · loyal · selfish · trustworthy

Positive (✓): ........... ........... ........... ........... ...........
Negative (✗): ........... ........... ........... ........... ...........
Task 5 — Comprehension: A school speech (5 marks) (5 marks)
Read Vidath's speech (above) and answer the questions.

(1) What inspired Vidath to write about personality?
(2) According to the speech, what makes each person unique?
(3) Write the sentence that lists at least three different types of people we meet.
(4) Find a word in the speech that means "a fixed way of behaving".
(5) Underline the correct answer. According to Vidath, personality comes from
(a) only our parents.
(b) only the environment.
(c) both birth and environment.
Task 6 — Notice: a personality talk (40–50 words) (5 marks)
You are the secretary of the Career Guidance Society. Write a
notice inviting students to a talk on 'Building a strong personality'. Use
about 40–50 words.

Include:
• date, time and venue
• name of the resource person
• who can attend
• how to register.
Task 7 — Short paragraph (50–60 words) (5 marks)
Write a paragraph on ONE of the following. Use about 50–60 words.
(a) The personality I admire most
(b) A bad habit I want to change
(c) What I would say at my own farewell
Task 8 — Bar graph / letter (~100 words, 10 marks) (10 marks)
Answer (a) OR (b). Use about 100 words.

(a) Write a letter to a pen friend describing the personality of a member of
your family. Include: relationship, three positive qualities with an example,
one weakness, one closing thought.

(b) The bar graph below shows the personality qualities of Grade 10 students
in a class of 40. Write a description.

Bar values: cheerful 24 · helpful 18 · honest 15 · punctual 12 · brave 9 · stubborn 6.
Task 9 — Speech / essay (~200 words, 15 marks) (15 marks)
Write on ONE of the following. Use about 200 words.
(a) A speech you would make at the assembly on 'What makes a strong personality'.
(b) An essay on 'Why kindness matters more than cleverness'.
(c) An article: 'The most influential person in my life'.

⚡ Quick Check — Adjectives & Adverbs

1. "She sings ___." (beautiful — how she sings)

2. "He is a ___ runner." (fast — describing the person)

3. Adjective "happy" → adverb: ___

4. Which word is an adjective? "The tall boy ran quickly."

5. "She speaks English very ___."

🎧 Dictation — Adjective Suffixes & Personality

Listen carefully, then type exactly what you hear. Click 🔊 to replay.

Sentence 1 of 5
Sentence 2 of 5
Sentence 3 of 5
Sentence 4 of 5
Sentence 5 of 5

🗣️ Speaking — Describing Character

Read each sentence aloud. Click 🎤 Record, speak clearly, then see your result.

Sentence 1 of 5
My best friend is cheerful, helpful, and always reliable.
Sentence 2 of 5
A responsible student completes their work on time without being reminded.
Sentence 3 of 5
She is known for being honest even in difficult situations.
Sentence 4 of 5
He became famous because of his courageous actions during the flood.
Sentence 5 of 5
The most admirable quality in a person is kindness towards others.
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